Dating the right guy
Instead, we set our sights on the ones who’ve got their head screwed on straight and are ready to have an adult relationship.
If your boyfriend meets any of the following criteria, chances are you’ve got a real man on your hands. Boys aren’t quite done screwing around yet, but men are.
Perhaps you grew up in a household where there was no role model of a solid, healthy relationship and you doubt that such a thing even exists.
Or maybe your dating history consists only of brief flings and you don't know how to make a relationship last.
Men are committed to things like their health, the cleanliness of their apartment, and their hobbies. Your boy might casually suggest drinks sometime soon, but your man will tell you that he’s made reservations for tomorrow evening at that new Italian spot that got rave reviews.
They’re committed to paying their bills on time, ramping up their side business, and working on their fitness. There’s a huge difference between the plans men make with women, versus the non-plans boys haphazardly attempt to make with women. A man will be straightforward instead of beating around the bush.
You need to dump him and go out with someone kinder, gentler, someone like my friend Kyle?
Even if you’ve been burned repeatedly or have a poor track record when it comes to dating, these tips can help you to keep things in perspective and put you on the path to finding a loving relationship that lasts.
I decided that I wanted nothing less than God’s best for me. It means if you have doubts about the relationship, if your significant other doesn’t treat you with the upmost respect, if you argue more than you get along, if you constantly find yourself defending him or her to your friends, then end it.I know that sounds harsh, but let me explain my theory on Christian dating. But I do believe that if you are seeking God’s will about who you date, He will lead you to someone that is a true fit for you.I don’t mean that your future spouse will be perfect or that you will think alike or always agree on everything. But I do believe that if you seek God’s guidance, He will lead you to the person who is going to be the match for you.If he doesn’t think something is a good idea, he’ll say it.
He doesn’t believe in wasting anyone’s time or giving people false hope.
Whatever the case may be, you can overcome your obstacles and find a healthy romantic relationship.