Ways to be more intimidating
The opportunities are abundant when you stop allowing fear to get the better of you.
You might make a new friend, a new career connection or get a date!
In his private mind he judged Urquhart of trying to intimidate him.
As a fan, something took over me and I introduced myself to him with little more than a smile, my name and some words of appreciation for his work. Kelsey stood up, asked me about myself, introduced me to his wife and thanked me sincerely from stopping by. She was very warm and chatty and shared her story with me as to how she got started in the culinary business. Most people -- including famous people -- are cool! Sometimes, if you make the first social move and say hello, you might be eradicating two people's nerves. You are giving power to your ego when you worry/overthink. Or as Arianna Huffington calls it, the "obnoxious roommate in your head...
Remember: The people you speak to may be more powerful than you, but you’ve earned a right to their presence. If you continually tell others, “I’m really nervous about this meeting,” you’ll be nervous.